What is appropriate to wear to a funeral or wake?

 

A wake or a funeral is an occasion where people show respect to the deceased and their family and friends.

So what things should you consider when visiting a wake or attending a funeral?

TIP: An easy way to remember what to wear is dress how you would when going to church.

 

1. Wear something conservative.  Most western cultures wear black, but navy and often dark colors can be just as tasteful and neutral.
2. Always cover shoulders and knees.  No tank tops and shorts.
3. Do not wear flip flops, boots or sporting gear.
4. Make sure you show respect by wearing polished shoes, no scuff marks please.
5. Avoid sundresses.  Wear what you would if you going on a job interview.
6. Do not wear loud colors like neon green or yellow.

 Extra Tip: What to Say?  Nothing you will say will bring their love one back but you can simply say “I’m sorry”; “I’m sorry for your loss”; “My condolences”

 

For Men – Again you can dress as if you are going to church or going to a job interview.  You can wear black, grey or navy blue suit with a white shirt and tie.  Sports jacket with pants or navy sweater and pants.

For Women – Dress as you are going to church or going for a job interview.  Conservative, professional and tasteful. Some women prefer to wear a suit, dress or skirt and a blouse. Some colors apply for woman too such as black, grey and navy.

For Children – The rules for children can be applied the same.  Children should feel comfortable and dressed also in dark colors.  Always bring a change of clothes for infants in case of spit up or food stains.